Halloween, school spirit weeks, and imaginative play all open possibilities for kids to explore who they are and what they can grow to do in the world. Children learn, especially earlier in life, through play. Restricting or belittling play and imagination can restrict what kids understand as possible in their lives and in the world. From language and emotions to social learning and science, play provides the roots for children to grow and blossom.
Creativity is an integral part of that, creating possibilities for kids to safely wrestle with and explore social norms, morality, and what could be. Becoming a daring pirate or a sneaky robber is a way to play at being “bad” without actually engaging in harmful behavior or to explore the complexities of humans. Playing age-appropriate Dungeons and Dragons campaigns increases the possibilities of thinking and imagining people and creatures different from ourselves. Wearing different clothes expands the possibilities of not only fashion, but also gender, so that transgender and gender expansive kids can explore more about how they want to be in their bodies. It also can be a space for cisgender children to explore what gender means to them. Being superheroes fighting villains and rescuing those in need of help affirms the values of bravery and justice. Being a ruler or president can be a space of prettiness and prestige, and it can also be a way to explore what it means to lead and care for others. Being animals or inanimate objects brought to life creates connection and empathy with a world outside themselves.
Imagination, creating stories, and developing plots and characters all help kids also develop empathy and values. Halloween is a great time to lean into creativity and play, whether through trunk or treat, “come to worship in costume” events, or even the simplicity of asking kids about their costumes. The options are endless for ways to remind kids that God is Creator. Whether it’s creation plays or skits or conversation during children’s time, connecting kids with God as Creator affirms what they already know: creativity and play are good. Genesis 1 teaches us that creativity and exploration are not only woven into the very fabric of Creation from the beginning, but that we are made in the image of One Who Creates.