When we are used to faith formation structures that are divided by age group, planning for intergenerational learning can seem terribly foreign. Why wouldn’t teens want to learn with teens, adults with adults, etc.? Sometimes, the topic of conversation might be scripture as a guide for marriage. Or maybe it’s dating as a Christian teen, or coping with empty nest syndrome. These are times when we should honor the unique experiences of people in particular affinity groups and anticipate their privacy needs. But often, the topics we pursue will affect Christians across the age spectrum. Things like learning Bible stories, cultivating a prayer life, etc. affect every member of Christ’s body, and every member will have gifts and insights to share.
In this anxious time, some of the most profound gifts of intergenerational learning are skill-sharing and deep fellowship. For example, what might the tween/teens teach about how to share one’s faith via social media? What might the elders there know about baking bread as a spiritual practice, or how to stretch a dollar to make sure your neighbor has enough? What might the preschoolers have to teach us all about how to find joy everywhere we look?
While there is much that can be said about the art and science of intergenerational curriculum development, there are four basic guidelines that can prove helpful in many contexts:
While planning for faith formation for people across the age spectrum can seem daunting at first, it often results in planning one lesson instead of many and, more importantly, strengthens the bonds of love amongst many members of God’s holy family, whether we are gathered around an altar or a screen.